Wednesday, April 27, 2011

On the Move!

Oh boy, we are on the move!  I never would have guessed it, but Silas beat Avery in the forward crawling! He army commando crawls anywhere he wants to go. I think Avery sees him and gets mad that she can only go backwards...I'm sure she'll be traveling forward soon! Here's a peek into our day:


Silas and Avery have just started a new phase called Let's Cry When Mom (or Dad) Leaves the Room.... uh oh. (and  I secretly love it - oh, to be loved:-) And they are very cautious with new friends now... it takes a few minutes for them to size the new friend up, but they'll warm up, smile and play.

Last Thursday, we traveled up to Grenada to be with Mom as she was honored as the Junior Auxilliary Woman of Distinction for this year. What an honor!  Of course, we can think of no one more deserving... she's truly an amazing person.  Pop, Mop, and Gay Gay came to visit!!

She's quite the poser! 

Silas loves his Aunt GayGay!

Two of a kind. Avery tilts her head for a picture now. It's hilarious.

Ok, Ok... Here they are! Pictures from Easter!  We've been so busy, I'm just now getting a chance to share them. We were smart and laid out clothes, bow, shoes, everything we needed Sunday morning so we wouldn't be rushed (like we usually are)... got up a little earlier, you know the drill.  I get dressed after babies have breakfast (lesson learned the hard way), and we get their adorable outfits on them. And of course, on cue, about 10 minutes before we walk out the door... we have a meltdown. Simultaneously. HA. I just had to laugh. So... there went our picture before church!  They finally piped down about halfway there. But must I say, they looked adorable!! Tears or not.

After a great worship service, we went straight to Grenada to see Mimi and Papaw!  What a beautiful day. Finally... we had a chance for our photo shoot!  And - by the way - I think we were a shoo-in for the annual, all prestigious, coveted, secret award judged by moms on Easter Sunday "my kid is cuter than yours".  HA!  Really... just kidding. 

Avery is a little confused with Mimi's dancing moves.  Silas thinks she's hilarious.

The family. First Easter!

Avery is again distracted by Mimi. If snapshots only had sound.

Just a swingin'
with their the best Mimi in the whole wide world!!!

As we remember and celebrate this Easter ALL that Jesus has done for us.... I was reading last night in Genesis 20-21 about Abraham, Sarah and the birth of Isaac. Sarah was married to a patriarch, a princess, described as absolutely beautiful... but was barren until she was in her 90s, and Isaac was born. All children are such gifts...but how much more did Sarah understand this! When she held her son Isaac, I imagine she closed her eyes in overwhelming joy and thankfulness at the miracle of birth...God's grace poured out on their family... and fulfillment of God's promises to make Abraham the father of a great nation.  Reminders that even when we are faith-less, He is faithful.

How true are the words of the 2nd verse of Because He Lives (written by the Gaithers):

How sweet to hold a newborn baby
And feel the pride and joy he gives
But greater still the calm assurance
This child can face uncertain days
Because He Lives!!

Thank you, Jesus... for your undeserved blessings.  Hope really does change everything.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Vacation and Kings

When I asked someone with 17 year-old twins for "advice" last August... he said, "plan a vacation when they're 8 months old"...  he was right. Oh, how hard it was to leave them for 5 nights... but Bruce and I had an absolutely wonderful vacation to Park City, Utah!  My sweet Mom, Mop, and GayGay kept them for a few days, then Mom had them until we got back last Tuesday. Silas and Avery had the biggest time!  

Thank you Moppy and GayGay:-)  and Mimi!!



What a fun crew!  13 wonderful friends!  

Silas and Avery have quickly outgrown the "infant" bathtub... I found Ducky at Wal-Mart and they LOVE baths sitting up!  They are hilarious.


We started sippy cups last week... they loved the new "toy"... still trying to figure out how to drink the juice though. hmmmm.... will they both be lefties?  

 

Every night, they eat supper about 6. And oh, how they love to eat. I've figured out it is easier to feed them first... then they are content in the high chairs while I finish our dinner. Bruce and I can eat right there at the counter while they keep themselves company. They don't quite talk like the YouTube twins on Good Morning America yet... but I bet those days will be here sooner rather than later!!!


We MUST begin baby-proofing the house soon. Silas and Avery both are in a race to see who'll start crawling first. Avery sees something she wants, tries so hard to get there... scoots backwards... gets mad and frustrated that she's moving away from her "target"! ha. Keep trying girl. Silas spins around on his tummy like a merry-go-round... and just grabs whatever he can to drag himself a few inches.  I wonder how much longer we'll be able to snap both of them in one candid shot?!



What do you get when you leave these cutie pies with Mimi, Moppy, and GayGay???  Blues Brothers.
7 months!!!
I mustn't leave out the big event in Grenada March 26. Each year, the Junior Auxillary crowns a King and Queen of their Charity Ball to honor a young woman and successful man's life of service in his career and to the community.  This year, my Dad was crowned King. We all had a great time and danced to the fun band at the party... and of course, curtsied to the king.  There is no one more deserving in my book. Christ Follower, Leader, Teacher, Motivator, Thing Fixer, Supporter, Thinker, Cook, Problem-solver, Writer, Rock, Humble Servant... Daddy.  Dad, you remind me often why you're still my hero. And best buddy.


Sunday, March 27, 2011

A New Perspective: Vertical Life

Yep. You got it. We are officially sitters. Avery has been getting the hang of it for a few weeks now, but in the last 5 days, Silas figured it out.  Life from the Y-axis: A whole new perspective... :-)  In fact, Avery will be on the M.O.V.E soon... she scoots backwards across the room now, but hasn't caught on to the forward crawl quite yet... she'll get on her hands and knees and rock, so we know it'll be any day now! I'm going to try to give a quick update of the last three weeks. Look at these cuties:


A few weeks ago, when I was with the youth choir in Nashville for our choir tour/mission trip, the Warfs flew down to help Bruce with Silas and Avery.  So glad they could come and spend some good time with the twins (and Bruce!). I know everybody had a blast!


Mimi gave Silas and Avery precious monogrammed bubbles for Valentine's Day:-)  We tried to have a photo shoot after church Sunday...
(I think Avery is going to look back at all her pictures one day and wonder why her mouth is ALWAYS open... )

I guess Silas doesn't like the collar?
 But somebody always has a good time! 

And when you think things can't get any more exciting...

Oh yes, she finds another gear!

Happy girl!  

Oh, and look!  Avery is showing off her new TWO pearly whites!

Can you see my teeth?!

Silas has one tooth on the bottom, but I think he likes his tongue better;)



Silas makes this hilarious face all the time. I have no idea what he is trying to say...  I promise we're not feeding him lemons! ha.  You're right Sara Rose, I think we've all seen this face a time or two from Papaw Jay before! haha.

You're gonna do what?! I thought we've been through this before. Cameras are for girls.
Silas makes another funny face all the time... with his tooth and another coming in (I think), he bites his bottom lip.  Either it feels good, or he is trying to be goofy. hmm. Maybe he'll tell us in about 6 months.

Here you silly women go with your cameras again. Smile? You want a smile?  Here. 
A few weeks ago, Bruce caught one of their conversations on camera!  They definitely know each other and smile and talk all the time. Hilarious!  See the video below... just ignore the basketball game going on in the background. March Madness has overtaken the Warf household... and I guess since my bracket is no good anymore, we'll have to cheer on Kentucky... if anyone wants a Kentucky Wildcat T-shirt to wear during the game, I know somebody who has no less than 15 in his drawer. One for every day of the week (even if I don't get around to laundry for 2 weeks!);o)


What a fun stage!  We can't believe they'll be 7 months old next week!  

Monday, March 7, 2011

Wings at 2am?

Operation Sleep, Avery update:  She slept through one of the last four nights - yay! Of course, the conversation in our bedroom that night went a little like this:
1:30am
Meredith:  Where is the video monitor?  Are they ok?  Can you see them both breathing?
Bruce:  Yes. For the 100th time, they are fine! Stop waking me up.
Meredith:  I just feel like I need to check on them.
Bruce:  Go to sleep.
2 hours later...
Bruce:  I can't believe they're still asleep.
Meredith:  shhhhh. I'm trying to sleep.
Bruce:  I'm just waiting for Avery to wake up.
Meredith:   Go to sleep.
2 hours later... (5:30am)
Meredith:  oh holy moly. they did it!!

BUT, the past 2 nights, she seems to love (or hate) the hours of 2am to 4am.  She screams her ever-lovely head off for 2 hours. The most impressive thing is that Silas sleeps through it all. Kudos, buddy!  

I have determined these long hours of heart-wrenching cries to be my time to pray for Silas and Avery. If I can't get up to get them, and I'm out of Kleenex for myself, the next best thing is to pray for them, (right?)... in awe of the many, many, undeserved blessings He has provided... there are so many people in this world who just wish they could hear their children or be up with them in the middle of the night. I pray for their hearts, their future spouses, their health, their future decisions, their self-esteems, their dreams... and how it humbles me to think God has trusted His perfect gifts to Bruce and me to somehow guide or point them in the right direction... to teach them to love Christ, to treasure Him.  wow. 

Yesterday, we had the privilege of playing with Mark Harris, the singer/songwriter, while he led worship for FBCJackson.  One of the songs he sang was his hit from a few years ago, Find Your Wings. I knew the song then, but of course, what new meaning it has now that we have children of our own!  Here are the lyrics:  

FIND YOUR WINGS
by Mark Harris
It's only for a moment you are mine to hold 
The plans that heaven has for you 
Will all too soon unfold 
So many different prayers I'll pray 
For all that you might do 
But most of all I'll want to know 
You're walking in the truth 
And If I never told you 
I want you to know 
As I watch you grow 

I pray that God would fill your heart with dreams 
And that faith gives you the courage 
To dare to do great things 
I'm here for you whatever this life brings 
So let my love give you roots 
And help you find your wings 

May passion be the wind 
That leads you through your days 
And may conviction keep you strong 
Guide you on your way 
May there be many moments 
That make your life so sweet 
Oh, but more than memories 

I pray that God would fill your heart with dreams 
And that faith gives you the courage 
To dare to do great things 
I'm here for you whatever this life brings 
So let my love give you roots 
And help you find your wings

It's not living if you don't reach for the sky 
I'll have tears as you take off 
But I'll cheer as you fly 

I pray that God would fill your heart with dreams 
And that faith gives you the courage 
To dare to do great things 
I'm here for you whatever this life brings 
So let my love give you roots 
And help you find your wings




You know Silas and Avery, you can just stop growing up now. Ok, kidding. Oh what fun times we have to come.  Thank you, Jesus, for Your blessings.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Half Birthday!

6 months old today!  Wow.  Silas and Avery did great at their checkup!  They both got 3 shots each... the same ones they got at 8 weeks and at 4 months. Good news is:  no more shots until 1 year:-)  They both got a glowing bill of health.  Here are their stats:  (keep in mind they were less than 5th percentile at birth...)
Silas
18 lbs, 9 oz  (75th percentile)
26 1/2 inches (60th percentile)
44.5 cm head circumference (75th percentile)

Avery
17 lbs  (75th percentile)
25 3/4 inches (60th percentile)
43 cm head circumference (75th percentile)

Dr Chevalier says Avery is big enough to sleep through the night...so it begins:  Operation Sleep, Avery.  Materials needed: children's ibuprofen, oragel (yes, we have a TOOTH!), and earplugs...and kleenex, for Bruce and me.  Oh gosh, don't know if I can do this!!

Dr. says Avery should be sleeping more in 24 hours (more like 15 hours instead of the 10 (which is stretching it!) she is getting now)... But she is a happy girl when she's not sleepy!  Here are some cute pics we snapped the other morning:




5 months... first "cold". Poor Avery didn't feel good that day. 

6 months!!

We just could not be more blessed!!

Monday, February 28, 2011

Family Day

Mom and Dad organized the first annual "Family Day" at Oxberry Hunting Club a few weeks ago. It was a huge success with about 50-60 people and lots of great food!  It was an absolutely BEAUTIFUL day - can't believe it was February!  Silas and Avery loved being outside all day (and, of course, ALL the attention from new friends:-)!







The pop-scooter!!  In a few months, they can take an actual ride with Papaw!
It has been such beautiful weather here in Jackson lately - and we've enjoyed afternoons when Bruce and I get home from work - we go outside and Silas and Avery laugh at Millie chasing the ball around!  They've really started noticing each other and talking to each other - so funny!



These are some of my favorites!  They are mesmerized with the "other" little one and have started what we call "hugging"!  Avery loves it!



Sunday, February 20th was their dedication at church.  Mom had stunning gowns made out of fabric that Mamaw Grace (my great grand-mother) picked out. The gowns (well, and Silas' shorts) were amazing and so special for the event!  Mom, Dad, Grace, Micajah, and Aunt GayGay and Uncle Bobby were there for the dedication. GayGay and Uncle Bobby were so kind to drive all the way down from Jackson, TN!  Silas and Avery did GREAT in the service - Silas talked and just "chilled" in Bruce's arms while Avery conducted calisthenics class for the whole 3,000 member congregation. Hilarious. 

We went to Mint to eat lunch after church. Silas and Avery had a long day - but were great!






We go for our 6 month checkup and shots tomorrow. Wow. 6. months.  I'll post the updated "stats" and pictures soon!

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Much Better Weather

Silas and Avery are feeling MUCH better!  This week, we've been strolling, had Allison Muirhead take their pictures, listening to them laugh, and watching them roll!  They are both changing single every day ... we can't blink or else we'd miss something! Maybe this explains why Silas and Avery have been keeping us awake at night... for some reason, Silas has been waking up at 3:45 and Avery looks at us like the picture below at 2am. But how can we complain?:-)


I LOVE my big girl chair!
We got them these little chairs for Valentine's Day... they love them! I can't get over how they look like big little people:-)

"Just hand me the blapper and I'm good to go"

All pictures are starting to be blurry... they never STOP moving!
Yes, Avery has always been the "mover and shaker" of the two, but Silas has now figured it out too!  Anyone have any experience herding cats?  We're gonna need help in a month or two when they start crawling!

Papaw Jay stopped by after working in Jackson one day this week.  This may be my favorite picture so far:

Avery is telling Papaw ALL about it.  She can't wait to ride the popscooter either!
Silas and Avery (and Mom and Dad) LOVE Wednesdays and Thursdays when Mimi comes to play ALL day! Mimi always gets the BEST pictures during the day and texts them to me at work... they never fail to make me smile!  And I wonder what exactly Mimi does behind that camera to get those awesome smiles.....  which makes me laugh too:-)   My patients are so kind to indulge me while I talk nonstop about Silas and Avery:-)

"Silly Mimi. You are so much fun! I want to be just like you when I grow up!"

Just can't get enough of my toys!
Before bedtime, we usually have a meltdown. That's when the clothes come off...  It'll buy us about 15 min to get their bottles made and things ready for bedtime. One night while running bath water, we set Avery down ON HER BACK to play in the floor. We came back in less than a minute... look what we saw!

I think she surprised herself!
Silas is happy to stay on his back for now... or stomach. Not quite ready to flip over yet... at least while we are watching.

We moved from squash to sweet potatoes with much more success!  If they swallow half of what ends up on their faces, I think we've done well:-)




I can't wait to see the new pictures Allison took. They'll be online in a week or so and I'll share!